Know the Warning Signs for an Unhealthy Relationship (from www.giverespect.org)
Do you notice your daughter or son:
If you suspect abuse, talk to your daughter or son to gather a better idea of what kind of relationship they feel they are in and use it as an opportunity to define what a healthy relationship looks like.
If at any time you feel that you or your teen is in immediate danger, call 911.
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline
1-866-331-9474
1-866-331-8453 (TTY)
www.loveisrespect.orgNational Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
www.ndvh.orgRape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) Hotline
1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
www.rainn.org
SARC 24-hour Helpline: 410-836-8430
What Type of Relationship is Your Daughter/Son In?
Ask your teen, and have him/her ask herself/himself these questions:
Does your boyfriend or girlfriend…
If your daughter or son answered YES to these questions, it is likely that s/he is in a healthy relationship. Encourage your teen to trust their instincts about the relationship to stay safe and comfortable.
If your daughter or son answered NO to these questions, ask your teen or have them consider:
Does your boyfriend or girlfriend…
If your daughter or son answered YES to any of these questions, their health and safety may be at risk. If you suspect abuse, there are people and resources available to help. Remind your daughter or son that s/he deserves a violence free relationship and that abuse is NEVER appropriate and NEVER their fault.
If you think your daughter or son may be controlling, abusive, or violent with their partner, tell them abuse and violence are NOT acceptable and that violence will not solve their problems. Let them know when you truly care for someone you don’t hurt them or try to control them. Abuse is a choice and there are resources and counselors that can help her/him understand the consequences, choose alternatives to violence, and stop the abuse.
If your teen isn’t ready to openly communicate with you about her/his relationship, let them know there are confidential resources and trained individuals available to answer questions and help them avoid unhealthy relationships. Pass on the information above, but let your teen know you are always available to talk.
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